Myself before starting this Journey
Hi, I’m Emi, the person behind Dear Self. I’m a 34-year-old woman from Monterrey, Mexico, currently living in Texas. My journey has been one of growth and transformation, fueled by my desire to become the best version of myself.
For most of my life, I struggled with my weight, which led to deep-seated insecurities. I often found myself single, claiming I was too busy for a relationship, but the truth was I felt scared—scared of not being beautiful enough, smart enough, funny enough, or simply ENOUGH. When I did date, I often chose partners who only reinforced my doubts, making it hard for me to see my own worth.
Everything changed when COVID-19 hit, and my baby sister welcomed a child into the world. This life event made me realize that I had always wanted a family, but I hadn’t been actively working toward that goal. After a heartfelt conversation with my mom, I understood that to attract the right partner, I needed to start by loving myself first.
Fast forward four years, and I’m now happily married with a beautiful two-year-old daughter. My husband supports me and motivates me to grow, encouraging me to love myself, which is helping me become the best version of me.
Along this journey, I’ve also discovered the importance of improving my finances. I believe that financial health is a crucial part of self-improvement. By educating myself about budgeting, saving, and investing, I’m not only building a more secure future but also gaining confidence and independence.
Why do I do this?
I created this blog to share my journey of learning to love myself more deeply. I want to help other women who are struggling with similar experiences. When I found out I was having a baby girl, it hit me that I needed to set a powerful example for her. To attract and live the life I deserve—and to give her the life she deserves—I had to fully embrace self-love.
Many of us have faced situations that make us feel inadequate or undeserving of love. We often tolerate toxic treatment and remain in environments that only bring us down. This struggle is largely a product of our minds. We are all meant to be loved and cherished, but it starts with loving ourselves first.
I am committed to being the example for my daughter, ensuring she never feels like she’s not enough. Along the way, I aim to support as many women as possible who are navigating similar challenges.
I encourage you to share your experiences in the comments below. If you’ve found anything that has helped you through a similar situation, I’d love to hear about it!
Love, Emi